NOT. Why is it when people knew you as someone nice and suddenly something bitchy happened and you can’t help but bitch, they would say that your true color just showed off. I just don’t get it why a lot of people associate negative attitudes as the real person’s whole being. It is not and never will be.
I realized this thing last tuesday when we played Pinoy Henyo (twisted: the one who will guess will give characteristics and the other person will judge whether the person they are trying to guess is possessing that characteristic, labo) and the facilitator said that the aim of the game was to tell if we already know our classmates well. She mentioned and related bad behavior to the a person’s personality.
I’m more than affected since I’ve argued with a lot of my block mates. I know that they think of me as a bitch. Yes, I am, but not always and not to everyone. Probably they think that I’m plastic towards them but then they don’t know what I’m really thinking. It’s just not right to judge someone because he or she did something wrong you didn’t like. There are million reasons why and you’re not meant to know them.
Oh well, in this world, people will look after all your actions and pull you down. Not everyone but there are meanest people.
For the nth time, I changed my theme. I’m not an advocate of illegal drugs but this theme is cute with hearts. Maybe I would not focus on how my blog looks but on what I’m typing about. Drama much.








I just don’t get it why a lot of people associate negative attitudes as the real person’s whole being. It is not and never will be.
Naalala ko PBB dito.
Mare, imma tell what you told me a couple of posts ago: live life, fuck what others think. (Okay, hindi ata yun yung sinabi mo, hehe.)
I miss you!
Judging someone basing on small samples is really annoying, childish and more often than not, yields inaccurate results.
You also have the right to bitch about something. If they’re basing that alone in labelling someone as a bitch, then everyone is a bitch, in that case. -.-
Your new theme looks good to me. I love the clean look. XD
grabe ang mean naman ng classmates mo. kami nung nagkaron ng topic about personality, nakakatawa yung comments ng classmates ko. it’s always a laughtrip. seniu ang brutal. personalan. tsk. siguro they thought you’re a bitch kasi something happened before. parang yun na yung first impression nila sayo. then dinala na nila yun forever. di na nila sinubukang kilalanain ka talaga.
I don’t like that too. I mean, why are all the bad attributes your “true colors”? Sometimes you need to do certain things even if it’s not what you usually do. It’s perfectly normal. Now I don’t know what’s wrong with those people but that was definitely uncalled for.
That’s kind of mean for others to think that you’re a bitch, even though you’re not. It’s sad that some people think that way. Just because you showed something “negative” for them. but you did it for a purpose and you did it because it is reasonable, then all of a sudden, people will label it as “true colors” when in fact, that’s not really a part of your true color, or at least, when they don’t even know you in the first place.
It is true that people are quick to judge and that their judgment is not always accurate.
As long as your action and the purpose behind it is reasonable, you’re off the hook.
Yes, it’s really true, most of people judge us easily without knowing us more ng dahil sa mga simpleng pangyayari
Most people usually remember and judge you based on one small act you did that they did not like. Only smart people keep track of the good things you’ve done and that fact is a crap.
They call you a flirt just because your friend’s boyfriend started liking you. I mean, is that your fault? Err. Okay, that was a random example.
) I just hate how they call you this and that without even trying to get to know you. Err. But whatever, you know who you are and your TRUE FRIENDS do, too.
screw them! haha I hate judgmental people. I hate people who judges other human being without taking the effort to know their life story.
I guess they expect a sweetheart 24/7? People have to realized everyone has feelings and sometimes, things happen that make us vent and explode.
I think one’s behavior does tell who they are.
I mean, if someone flips out one day that certainly doesn’t mean that they always flip out and that they have a bad attitude or anything.
But if, for example, I saw someone picking on someone, or putting someone else down, or being a brat, I would, honestly, think they were a bad person.
As far as your layout, I think it’s very clean and sleek. I like it.
oh, that must really be a bitchy thing to do.. one of my classmates done the same thing too.. I know i am mean sometimes but i make it sure that i dont hurt that person by saying some things to a ceryain extent.. I like your theme now coz it’s simple..
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“Oh well, in this world, people will look after all your actions and pull you down. Not everyone but there are meanest people.”
yeah, especially those who think that they’re superior to you. They love putting down other people so that the attention will be all theirs.
eff them!
and.. ugh, I wasn’t able to decode what you meant with “I’m not an advocate of illegal drugs but this theme” until I saw that text at the lower left of this comment box. hahaha!
cheers
Yah I agree maybe, they just don’t know who you are. They judge you for what action you have done in the past, it’s hard to convince people that you are nice. Better just stay true to yourself.. I think people who know you much, will never question you..they will accept you for who you are.
I didn’t quite catch the rules of that game. XD haha lol anyway–
..I agree that your behavior doesnt always tell you who you are. Thank God for Social Psychology, I’ve learned about it. hoho. it’s okay, don’t be pissed off. if they’re pissed off because of you, they’ll be the one who wont be able to sleep at night, not you. XD
Hi sis!! hehe… remember me?
anyway, naku medyo malabo ata sakin ung rules ng game… pero siguro kung ako ung maglalaro magegets ko un for sure. Actually slight nagets ko naman, parang ako din eh, ung Mama ko sabi sakin maldita daw ako paano kasi kung sumagot. Pero I don’t take that seriously, bahala siya. Mabait naman ako eh.
Tsaka i don’t think sa ngayon walang plastic, walang perfect na tao. Possible talagang maging plastic ang isang tao. Plastic rin ako kapag plinaplastic ako ng tao. I have this vibes na madaling makaramdam sa tao, na kapag di nila ako gusto, eh di wag. Diba? Keber ko ba.
Wag mo ng isipin un, sige ka…
I guess your mates aren’t really the open-minded types of person. When you do bad, you’re plastic, when you do good, it’s still the same. Magulo sila. And just let it be Kate. Hayaan mo lang. You’re not there to please them.
You are 100% right – everyone goes through different “moods” but that doesn’t mean that is what/who you are. I am not a bitch but I can can def be one at times!